THINGS I LEARNED FROM AND REMEMBER ABOUT GRANDPA
BY PAUL DERYCKE
He introduced me to the fact that comics are in the newspaper every day not just Sunday!
My brother Mark crying, not as much because he was spanked with the flyswatter, as that he discovered Grandpa was actually faster than him.
Shopping for new shoes for my birthday, and for the super hero action figures I wasn’t supposed to tell anybody about.
Watching Saturday cartoons and westerns over bowls of cornflakes.
Picking raspberries, gooseberries, green beans, pole beans, tomatoes, squash, peppers, onions, cantaloupe and watermelon.
Eating raspberries, gooseberries, green beans, pole beans, tomatoes, squash, peppers, onions, cantaloupe and watermelon – with salt.
The proper way to grill meat is until it is an unidentifiable black lump similar to the charcoal you started the fire with.
Any fruit or nuts can be made into cookies or pie.
If you mow your lawn into the vacant lots around you, it becomes your land. He called this “The Fishers Homesteading Act.”
How the squirrels and rabbits on his property always seemed to die of, as he said, “lead poisoning”.
How to properly use drill presses, power saws, lathes and an endless list of other tools.
That anything can be fixed with fiberglass, Duck Tape, Goop, or J-B Weld.
Too much yeast will make your wine bottles explode.
That education is important, and never ends.
That God, Family and Friends (in that order) matter the most in life.
If we all remember him and share these and other stories about him, he will always be with us.
[The memories shared above are published in this blog with the permission of Paul DeRycke, the grandson of our Christian brother, James R. Watson (of Fishers, NY), who went to be with our Lord Jesus on March 19, 2008. Following Paul’s comments which were made at the graveside service, I have added some of the comments that I made in honor and celebration of the faith and life our dear brother and friend James. These comments are based on Hebrews 10:35-11:6: A Faith That Continues to Speak. Additionally, James’ family honored him with a very fitting song, for James was born and raised in small town Kentucky. The song is “Small Town Southern Man”, by Alan Jackson].
A FAITH THAT CONTINUES TO SPEAK
By Bryan Buttram
TEXT: HEBREWS 10:35-11:6
Since the time of James’s baptism [April 28, 2000] I have had many opportunities to speak with him during visits at his home and at church; for so long as he was healthy and not snowed in, he attended every worship service and Bible study. Often James would introduce a topic that he wanted to discuss by saying: Most people don’t realize this; or a lot of people seem to miss the importance of this. And then he would speak of an insight from God’s word that he had been studying and contemplating on, and discussing with family and others. James was a very humble man; so when he spoke this way he was speaking from observation and experience that others cared about a lot of things, but often did not take the time to search and know the deep things of God. And yet that is what James did; he studied the Word of God with eagerness, and he loved to talk about his insights and questions with others. I talked with him about his studies and insights, and let me tell you, James really got it. He really understood things that many people too easily ignore or trivialize; and yet these are the very things that enriched the depth of his fellowship with the invisible, immortal, eternal Creator and Father of us all. So I say again, James really got it and I wished more people showed that kind of interest in the things of God.
Let me share you a few things that tell me that James really understood what was important to God and that he was diligent to practice what was important to the best of his ability. James’s example of spirituality is an example of true spirituality that is a path of life that follows the shape of the landscape, and is not the pretentious, superhighway spirituality that cuts through the landscape trying to rush through life with little commitment and a lot of convenience.
We know that James walked the path of serving his country in the army, of working hard, helping to raise a large family, and doing most things to better their living space and lives with his own two hands. James endured his own long term illnesses more than once and for many years; and he lovingly helped to care for Kay through her illness. In spite of hardships, James never harbored bitterness but trusted in God and looked to keeping his spirit and his mind full and healthy. James was not a selfish person, but a neighbor, friend and Christian brother who truly cared and looked for ways to do things for people without letting his left hand know what his right hand is doing. Everyone who has had an opportunity to see the display of pictures know that James’ was rich with a large and extended family, his home, his garden, and his wood shop — he enjoyed his family and his life.
I found James to be very observant, thoughtful, discerning and honest. He could always provide interesting insights into human behavior and world affairs. But at least for the years I knew him, his greatest interest was in the things of God; particularly the importance of faith, the Holy Spirit, prayer, Israel and what God was doing in the affairs of man, and of angels. This is why I read the scripture from Hebrews, because although James is physically dead his faith still speaks and in the spiritual realm he enjoys his reward from God until the time of the resurrection from the dead.
Additionally, please read the following newspaper article about James:
Pierce, Jessica. “James Watson: Southern gent, storyteller.” Daily Messenger: March 30, 2008.